Christians will have to figure out how to apply the LawWord of God to real-life situations, including divorce.
When we have justice in our families and our homes, then we can expand our reach into the church, the town, the community, the local business.
If we haven’t earned our stripes at home, then we need more sanctification, more righteousness, more compassion.
A deeper filling of the Holy Spirit.
A better grip on what God wants, a greater commitment to do what He wants, and the patience and endurance to pay the price to
We must not reach for great things until we have proven ourselves in small things.
And if it takes a generation or two to get our families united under love and truth, and THEN expand the Kingdom of God into the outer world, then the time spent is well worth it.
Small things matter. Small people matter. Small problems matter.
The Christendom of the future is built on many many small godly families, and (most likely, after the bust-up of the Ever-Power-hungry, strife’n’war’and pain-loving1 Secularist Empires) many many small, local governments with serious problems, not much money, and not many hands.
Practice building tiny but healthy and good kingdoms in the homes, before daring to raise up small but just and lawful county and town-scale civil governments.
ALL under the Law and Authority of God.
From Covenant Renewal: “Until Death . . . by Ray Sutton.
A Covenantal View of Divorce
Moses says that Biblical divorce Is a covenantal process, by saying, “When a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some indecency in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out from his house . . .” (Deut. 24:1). The phrase “certificate of divorce” literally reads in the Hebrew, “Book of cutting,” divorce being the English translation of cutting. Here is the key.
Moses has carefully used a word to describe the divorce process that he also uses to explain the formation of a covenant. When he refers to man’s covenant with God, he says, “On that day the Lord made [‘cut’] a covenant with Abram” (Gen. 15:18; Deut. 29:1, 25). The language precisely describes how the covenant with Abram was made, better, cut. Animals were cut in half. They were severed to symbolize the sanction of cursing being placed on a substitute. The tearing of flesh also indicated that should Abram ever break the covenant, what happened to them would happen to him and his descendants. As the animals were cut when the covenant was made, so would he be cut if the covenant were violated.
We can conclude that Moses’ use of the same word to explain both actions, entrance into and exit out of a covenant, makes them equally part of a covenantal process. He thereby establishes that Biblical divorce is just as much a covenant action, as the original formation of the marriage covenant. More in line with our purposes, he provides a proper covenantal rationale for understanding divorce and remarriage. Since Moses speaks to the divorce question with covenantal language (Deut. 24:1ff) in the larger covenant of the Book of Deuteronomy, let us use the points of the covenant to overview five principles of divorce.
First, the principle of imputation. God is transcendent. One of the ways He initially demonstrates His transcendence is by His ability to declare something into existence, and to designate a certain legal status to that which He created. His power to designate is the principle of imputation, literally, “lay to the account of.” He designated His world “good,” or “very good” in the case of the creation of man. But God also designated what was bad or dead. He told Adam and Eve that covenantal violation of His commands would terminate the covenant, rendering them covenantally dead, “In the day you eat … you shall surely die” (Gen. 2:17). In other words, God would impute the legal status of death to them.
We know their death was a legal death because Adam and Eve did not physically die when they ate the forbidden fruit; they died in their covenantal relationship to God. Their death was not cessation of existence. They had the legal status of death imputed to them. God and God alone could declare the status of a relationship because He set the terms of the covenant. By so doing, God determined the basis for creating and dissolving all covenants. He set out the principle that on the basis of covenant fulfillment, a certain status is Imputed to the covenant, either a status of life or death, meaning the covenant is either existent or non-existent according to covenant faithfulness.
Man applied this principle of imputation to the formation and the dissolution of the marriage covenant. When Adam met Eve, he designated her his wife (Gen. 2:23). He saw the covenant faithfulness of God in creating and bringing her to him, so he acted as an agent for God by pronouncing a legal union. Adam imputed a certain status to the relationship. Today, a minister, or a Justice of the Peace, asks two people to vow publicly before witnesses, and then he declares that a covenant bond exists. The minister usually says, “What God has joined together, let no man separate” (Matt. 19:6). The covenant is imputed into existence.
Man was also allowed to declare the death of a marriage covenant. In the words of Moses, he could, “write out a certificate of divorce,” if he found “some indecency” in his spouse (Deut. 24:1). Just as God had declared Adam and Eve legally dead in their covenant to Him, meaning the covenant no longer existed, so man can declare a marriage covenant legally dead, meaning the covenant no longer exists.
A number of questions immediately pop into the mind, but the basic one goes something like the following: Can man just arbitrarily declare a marriage covenant dead, any time he wants to? Of course not, man’s imputation is not allowed to be autonomous. He is not permitted to get a divorce any time he wants to or feels like it, because there are other controlling principles, as we shall see. Nevertheless, they all build on the first principle that legal status is imputed to a relationship on the basis of faithfulness or unfaithfulness.
Second, the principle of jurisdiction. Paul says, “do you not know brethren [for I am speaking to those who know the law), that the law has jurisdiction over a person as long as he lives? For the married woman is bound by law to her husband while he is living; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law concerning her husband” (Rom. 7:2). Paul parallels the jurisdiction of the law (Old Covenant) and the jurisdiction of the marriage covenant. In both cases death is the extent of accountability to the covenant involved.
Simple enough, but what kind of death, physical or covenantal, sometimes inaccurately called “spiritual? Death has to be more than physical in the case of “death to the law,” because one does not die physically to be freed from the Old Covenant. Death is through the reception of Jesus Christ, a covenantal participation in His death. So the death of a marriage covenant has to be broader than physical death. The termination of marriage for ethical reasons is expressly allowed by Moses and Jesus. Moses says that a proper “certificate of divorce” can end a marriage (Deut. 24:1). And Jesus says that “fornication” terminates a marriage covenant (Matt. 5:32). Furthermore, the immediate context of the Romans 7 passage says, “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life” (Rom 6:23). How is “death” used in this verse? Is it cessation of life? No, the “death” in view is covenantal.
We should conclude that the death of which Paul speaks is covenantal and/or physical. Should one’s spouse die physically, he is obviously released from marriage obligations. But should his spouse die covenantal, he is also released. Just as covenantal unfaithfulness killed Adam’s covenant with God, resulting in the imputation of the status of death to the relationship, even though he was still physically alive, so covenantal unfaithfulness results in the imputation of the status of death to the marriage covenant, even though the marriage partner is still physically alive. The innocent party is released from the jurisdiction of the guilty party.
Now we can ask the question in our next principle, “What specific acts kill the marriage covenant?
Third, the principle of covenant killing offenses. These offenses are acts that kill the covenant and/or the covenant community. Most of the time they involve a second, false covenant that nullifies the original covenant (e.g. idolatry and adultery). Normally they receive the death penalty or exile. These covenant-breaking actions are often called the “worthy of death” offenses (Rom. 1:32; Acts 25:11; cf. Deut. 17:6, 19:6, 21:22, 22:26). Some of the acts which could be punished by death or exile were the following: murder, idolatry, homosexuality, witchcraft, apostasy, blasphemy, adultery, and disease.
How does this principle apply to marriage? If one lived in a Biblical society, his spouse could be put to death or exiled for committing any of these offenses, and the innocent party would obviously be free from his marriage to the guilty party because his spouse would be physically or covenantally dead. This rationale seems to be behind Christ’s use of a very broad umbrella term like “fornication,” when He used it to specify the only basis for divorce (Matt 5:32). Greg Bahnsen has proved that “fornication” speaks to a number of heinous sexual religious crimes, the ones referred to above as covenant killing offense. So Christ’s reasoning is that certain offenses in and of themselves kill the marriage covenant.
Fourth, the principle of restitution. What is the punishment for killing the marriage covenant? The fourth principle states that the restitution for murder, even the murder of a marriage, is the death penalty. The payment exacted for killing the covenant by murder and adultery (one of the capital offense crimes) is illustrated in the life of David. When he murdered Uriah and committed adultery with Bathsheba (II Sam. 11), the prophet Nathan told the king a story.
There were two men in one city, the one rich and the other poor. The rich man had a great many flocks and herds. But the poor man had nothing except one little ewe lamb which he bought and nourished; and it grew up together with him and his children. It would eat of his bread and drink of his cup and lie in his bosom, and was like a daughter to him. Now a traveler came to the rich man, and he was unwilling to take from his own flock or his own herd, to prepare for the wayfarer who had come to him; rather he took the poor man’s ewe lamb and prepared it for the man who had come to him:
Then David’s anger burned greatly against the man, and he said to Nathan, ‘As the Lord lives, surely the man who has done this deserves to die. And he must make restitution for the lamb fourfold, because he did this thing and had no compassion (II Sam. 12:1-6).
Restitution should be paid; the message is clear. The payment may be in the form of the death penalty, or in the form of “fourfold restitution” should the offending party repent and should covenant renewal occur. (In some cases the payment and repentance might be made by the offending party, but the innocent party may choose not to continue the marriage, as in the case of a life-threatening-disease, such as AIDS, be involved.)
But let it not be misunderstood: payment should be and always is made. Even when it is ignored, God always gets His payment, one way or the other. In David’s case, he lost his son, and he even describes his own post-sin condition as a state of covenantal death. He says, ‘When I kept silent about my sin, my body wasted away through my groaning all day long” (Ps. 32:3). In other words, David had covenantally died and his body was in the process of decay.
We can now understand certain New Testament statements that build on the Old Testament. The Lord could freely use such an all-encompassing word as fornication when He told the Pharisees of the only reasons for divorce (Matt. 5:32), because fornication sins were punishable by death or exile. In other words, fornication killed the covenant, so divorce was possible. Also, Paul referred to desertion as a basis for divorce because the family was left destitute (I Cot 7:15). In effect, a deserter kills his family unless someone else helps. Again, the rationale is that the deserter covenantally died through this murderous act. Divorce and remarriage is allowed.
Fifth, the principle of transfer. What happens to the innocent party when the partner commits a covenant killing offense, and they do not receive the death penalty? Here is where the actual divorce procedure comes into the picture. The innocent party will have decide whether he (or she) wants to pursue a divorce. He may want to stay and try to restore the guilty party or he may want to leave, understanding that the guilty party is rendered “worthy of death.” In this case, the innocent party will need to secure a certificate of divorce. This legal document officially declared the marriage covenant dead. It was as important as the coroner’s statement that declares anyone legally dead.
Why? A coroner has an important function in society. He applies a standard to determine whether or not someone is really dead and then declares it so. He makes certain that a person is not buried alive. In the case of marriage, civil and ecclesiastical authorities would essentially perform this function. They would pronounce the death of a marriage with a “certificate of divorce.”
The “bill of divorce” (Deut. 24:1) was a legal declaration. It was a declaration that death had taken place. It did not kill the marriage any more than a coroner kills a person when he pronounces him dead. It would have probably taken place in connection with the Elders between the gates since one would not want to be subject to the accusation of adultery when he went to marry a new wife (Deut. 24:1ff.). Therefore, people in the Church ought to go to the officers of the Church, rather than the Civil magistrate, to secure a “certificate of divorce.” Not only can they find counsel that might lead the offending party to covenant renewal and resurrection, but the divorce can be declared in a proper Biblical fashion.
Although we are not given a complete sample of a divorce document in Scripture, we can cite an example from extra-Biblical Jewish literature. Church officers might want to use something similar to the following statement.
“On the_____ day of the week _______ in the month_______ in the year_______ from the beginning of the world, according to the common computation in the province of_____ I _____ the son of _____ by whatever name I may be known, of the town of ______ with entire consent of my mind, and without and constraint, have divorced, dismissed, and expelled thee ______ daughter of _____ whatever name thou art called, of the town of ______ so as to be free at thy own disposal, to marry whomsoever thou pleases, without hindrance from anyone, from this day forever. Let this be thy bill of divorce from me, a writing of separation and expulsion, according to the law of Moses and Israel.
________ son of ________, witness
________ son of ________, witness”
The officers of the Church would want to alter the statement at some points. Christians should work out marital and divorce problems through the Church. The Church is a government which has its own sphere of authority, not to be mingled or confused with civil government. Nevertheless, when Christians are married, we see all three spheres of society involved: State, Church, and Family. Thus, when a divorce occurs, all three spheres will probably end up being involved, especially in our society. Unfortunately, however, although State, Church, and Family help create the marriage covenant, only the State participates in the dissolution. The statist approach robs the Elders (officers) and the Church of its rightful place in the life of society and the individual Christian.
Let me now summarize. “Death” is the basis for divorce. The death of one’s partner kills the marriage covenant. And, the covenantal and more Biblical view of death teaches that certain capital offense sins kill the marriage bond.
For Christians, covenantal life is the basis of their marriage (II Car. 814). If the spouse commits a sin which brings covenantal death, the “worthy of death” crimes of the Bible, then the innocent party is free to sue for divorce and remarry.
For non-Christians, although they are covenantally dead, they are still able to marry on the basis of the original marriage institution that was created by God’s Word. Thus, their marriage is legally” alive. The “worthy of death” crimes could be used as a standard for divorce and remarriage with them as well, in so far as one of these crimes would legally” kill the offending spouse’s relationship to the innocent party.
Finally, the covenantal interpretation of Romans 7 resolves those theological and practical tensions we mentioned earlier. Here are significant ramifications.
One, a person cannot Biblically and legitimately obtain a divorce for just any reason. I once heard a minister say that “desertion” is the sole basis for divorce. When I asked him what he considered “desertion,” he told me things like psychological desertion. According to the Biblical system, such subjective reasons would not be valid reasons for divorce and/or remarriage. The matter has to be a threat to the covenantal life of the marriage.
Two, divorce is not mandatory. In the case of Hosea, God commanded him to remain with his adulterous wife. One might choose to remain, even though he is married to someone who has covenantally died and left the marriage covenant. He could wait and see if his spouse repents, is resurrected, and comes alive again. In other words, the faithful partner could keep the marriage alive, if he wants to.
Three, one is free to remarry because the spouse is considered covenantally dead (Rom. 7:2). So many of the views on divorce separate the divorce/remarriage issue. But this is unsound reasoning. On the basis of the Romans 7 principle, the spouse is free to take another. If a woman with four children is released from a husband because he has committed adultery, wouldn’t it be better for her to remarry? Yes, bud not just for practical considerations. Paul reasons that her husband is dead in the true sense. Biblical logic makes provision for the children. From a practical point of view, certainly she should remarry. Those children need a new father!!!!
Four, death can be overcome by resurrection. Even though a spouse has committed a sin which kills his covenant, he can renew his relationship with God. This was the case with David. He says, 1 acknowledged my sin to Thee, and my iniquity I did not hide; I said, ‘I will confess my transgression to the Lord, and Thou didst forgive the guilt of my sin” (Ps. 32:5). So, any marriage can be renewed if repentance occurs. This is a marvelous offer which God makes to each and every broken marriage. It is the message of resurrection through Jesus Christ.
Five, the believer who has converted after his marriage to an unbeliever is told to stay with the unbeliever. Why? Again the Old Testament clears up the matter. The unbeliever is said to be “sanctified” (I Cor. 7:14). The model for un-believer sanctification is the stranger in the land in the Old Testament (Ex. 12:43 11.; Lev. 24:22). As long as he was willing to live in the sphere of the covenant, he was provisionally clean, and he was in some sense covenantally “alive,” but not in any eternal sense. If the unbeliever, married to a believer, revolted against the law of the covenant and thereby defected from the sphere of sanctification created by the Christian spouse, he left the sphere of sanctification and covenantally died. The believer was free to divorce and remarry.
In conclusion, divorce is never an easy situation. The Bible gives refreshing insight in a day when there is much confusion. But divorced people, and those who are about to experience a divorce, are still faced with the pain and suffering associated with it. Even so, the Grace of God is greater than all our sin. Therefore, the Grace of God is man’s only hope!!!
**Footnotes for this essay can be found in the original PDF, linked below.
Covenant Renewal, Vol. 1, No. 5 (May 1987)
For a PDF of the original publication, click here:
1War is the health of the state: and the State is the One True God of the Secularists, the Source of the Law, the Judge of Public Morality… as enforced by the Sword of the State.
This goes for cultural wars, as well as bullet wars.
Any tool to create more pain and fighting and strife, and so open the door to Our Loving Betters to expand the might of the State, at the cost of the common folk.
Christians would be wise, to insure that their limited resources are not sucked up in the Progressive’s Forever-War Against Everyone… and especially against Christians.
They have the power and the might of the State and the Corporations and the Univocal Media and Academia: we do not.
On the other hand… the pagans don’t really believe that government debts must be paid, or that the law of consequences matter. But they will be, one way or another.
When the government goes bankrupt, when the government promises are defaulted on, and are revealed to be the empty lies they always were, then the Idol of Power goes a-tumbling down.
We — and our children — must be able to stand when that day comes.
“Yet as Rothbard the historian explained so well, the true progressive goal was always to remake America domestically by promoting war. The old Bernays-cum-Wilson slogan of making the world safe for democracy was also intended to create a permanent war footing here at home, to make all the trouble in the world the business of the US. The Great War, America’s first true ideological war, again illustrates the situation today. War gives presidents and the federal government a leading role in society.
This desire for continuous conflicts that place government at the heart of American life are plainly visible today, whether the emergency is Putin, covid, or climate change. As always, the need for control over people and especially property is justified by ginned-up or even manufactured outside events. And war is the ultimate justification for collectivist policies, especially the marshalling of manpower and resources.” – Rothbard on Today’s Progressive War Jingoism, by Jeff Deist